foreverlurk wrote: ↑Wed May 01, 2024 10:44 pm
DocRick wrote: ↑Wed May 01, 2024 10:26 pm
I don't remember the name but there was a story where a woman suddenly shrank and saved from a spider by a guy. He was angered that she didn't see him as her hero and resisted all his efforts to win her heart.
LMAO that's quite the trope-reversal and kink-destroying stuff. I wanna read it
DocRick wrote: ↑Wed May 01, 2024 10:33 pm
I always saw the scenario of a deliberate shrink was more from a darker desire to possess/own a
woman the shrinker could never have at her normal size.
It's complicated (tm).
You're not wrong, and seriously that's something I've always struggled with. The desire isn't fully dark, but stems from one's own lack of self-confidence, introversion, shyness and awkwardness towards women in general. The allegory is probably that I personally don't think I deserve to be loved (it's complicated, like I said), and only when shrunk down and fully dependent on me could she possibly consider me worthy.
It's not a scenario I explore often because it's a bit too close to home. That being said, being the cause of her shrinking can be accidental, too. Wanting to do the right thing and restore her to normal, even when all I desire would be to keep her tiny, can be the grey zone I like to explore while still keeping some appearance of nobility.
The story was on the old Minimizer's page, I think. I don't believe it was on this forum. I read it many years ago.
I completely understand what you're saying. It's kind of the story of King Kong....he loves the girl, but only his immense size allows him to have her and though he tries to show his love, he keeps screwing everything up. For the tiny girls, it allows them to be free of guilt for their sexual desires that society sees as immoral (in 1933) since she can't stop Kong from doing whatever he wants to her anyway.
Fantasizing about it in the matter of size differences, when you feel like Kong shall we say, is okay. Releasing your urges in writing or art is even better. In the real world, acting it out is called domestic violence, kidnapping, abduction, child abuse, even murder and that's not okay.
So don't feel alone. You have a lot of company out here.