by azureeyes » Wed Apr 07, 2021 7:29 pm
HentaiHunter1 wrote: ↑Wed Apr 07, 2021 3:10 pm
I agree with you Azureeyes. SW enjoyment doesn't have to be just cruel. It might sound funny me saying that since that is what I mostly write about at some level or another. But I have ideas of care takers or even men planning on being cruel that decided against at after they receive their sw. (Circumstances could make how they got a sw as cruel, but semantics.)
I honestly feel I would more likely pamper a sw if one fell into my lap then torment her. Even though I enjoy the cruel fantasy. Just because one likes to imagine one scenario doesn't mean that's how they would act if that situation comes up. I enjoy some first person shooters, but I doubt I could shoot at a person.
Now I'm not saying your wrong if your only into the sadist or masochist aspects of sw. Just that they don't have to go hand and hand. I would imagine many of the little ladies here enjoy the caretaker or even miss sized partners aspects. Verity makes a better potluck.
HH1
I remember back, way before Min's board a discussion that started off asking the direct question to those who liked the VSW genre if they would truly be like that if they had an actual tiny women. I remember the majority of them who answered said, "WTF?! Of course not! I'd take care of her and try to help her!"
Which I think is important to hear. Because it is a fantasy and it can be anything and anyway you want. For some being in control, even to violent extremes, is satisfying because of their own personal lives. Not necessarily because they aren't in control, but let's face it, there's always that boss, coworker, person you have to deal with who very much deserves a dirt nap and even better if you could help them with that. But it doesn't mean you are ever going to actually do any of that and often, when presented with a reality, find, you have absolutely no desire to move on with the fantasy ideas.
I think it is easy to speculate and imagine the worst and most violent ideas because shrinking isn't real and isn't even close to potentially becoming real any time soon, if ever. Therefore, it is easier to distance one's self with a reality. And that's perfectly okay to do! That's why it's fantasy.
As an SW, sometimes, it is hard to determine intent. Just because it is fantasy doesn't mean there aren't very real people who would use the fantasy as a way to lure a potential victim. Particularly in this day and age with incels and other types of toxic behaviors. So it's often nice to hear from the giants that they are aware it is fantasy and is not a true reflection of their real selves.
So when a sweeping generalization is made about the likes and desires of Sw's and Bigs, it's really not okay. I hate to be "that person", but there are a lot of problems with that for me.
Let me state again, it is *perfectly* okay to be into sado masochistic things. It is okay if that is a part of who you are. But that is for the person speaking only. It does not reflect everyone in the room and shouldn't be applied as such. Consent also works in this type of situation as well. I'm not okay with someone making a sweeping comment that could subject me unwillingly to things I'm not okay with. I accept you as you are, but please don't superimpose those things on me unless I have agreed with it.
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I agree with you Azureeyes. SW enjoyment doesn't have to be just cruel. It might sound funny me saying that since that is what I mostly write about at some level or another. But I have ideas of care takers or even men planning on being cruel that decided against at after they receive their sw. (Circumstances could make how they got a sw as cruel, but semantics.)
I honestly feel I would more likely pamper a sw if one fell into my lap then torment her. Even though I enjoy the cruel fantasy. Just because one likes to imagine one scenario doesn't mean that's how they would act if that situation comes up. I enjoy some first person shooters, but I doubt I could shoot at a person.
Now I'm not saying your wrong if your only into the sadist or masochist aspects of sw. Just that they don't have to go hand and hand. I would imagine many of the little ladies here enjoy the caretaker or even miss sized partners aspects. Verity makes a better potluck.
HH1
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I remember back, way before Min's board a discussion that started off asking the direct question to those who liked the VSW genre if they would truly be like that if they had an actual tiny women. I remember the majority of them who answered said, "WTF?! Of course not! I'd take care of her and try to help her!"
Which I think is important to hear. Because it is a fantasy and it can be anything and anyway you want. For some being in control, even to violent extremes, is satisfying because of their own personal lives. Not necessarily because they aren't in control, but let's face it, there's always that boss, coworker, person you have to deal with who very much deserves a dirt nap and even better if you could help them with that. But it doesn't mean you are ever going to actually do any of that and often, when presented with a reality, find, you have absolutely no desire to move on with the fantasy ideas.
I think it is easy to speculate and imagine the worst and most violent ideas because shrinking isn't real and isn't even close to potentially becoming real any time soon, if ever. Therefore, it is easier to distance one's self with a reality. And that's perfectly okay to do! That's why it's fantasy.
As an SW, sometimes, it is hard to determine intent. Just because it is fantasy doesn't mean there aren't very real people who would use the fantasy as a way to lure a potential victim. Particularly in this day and age with incels and other types of toxic behaviors. So it's often nice to hear from the giants that they are aware it is fantasy and is not a true reflection of their real selves.
So when a sweeping generalization is made about the likes and desires of Sw's and Bigs, it's really not okay. I hate to be "that person", but there are a lot of problems with that for me.
Let me state again, it is *perfectly* okay to be into sado masochistic things. It is okay if that is a part of who you are. But that is for the person speaking only. It does not reflect everyone in the room and shouldn't be applied as such. Consent also works in this type of situation as well. I'm not okay with someone making a sweeping comment that could subject me unwillingly to things I'm not okay with. I accept you as you are, but please don't superimpose those things on me unless I have agreed with it.